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Robin Gelfius

Hello,

My name is Robin.  Welcome to my blog.  I am writing this blog to pass on what I have learned from 2 marriages and so many unique life experiences.  I am not a therapist, nor am I trained in counseling or psychology.   

I have lived a lot of life, and I hope to give you food for thought from what I’ve learned.  This may help you navigate your marriage and relationships in a way you may not have considered. 

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Don’t hesitate to contact and reach me!!

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robin
Robin Gelfius

Hello,

My name is Robin.  Welcome to my blog.  I am writing this blog to pass on what I have learned from 2 marriages and so many unique life experiences.  I am not a therapist, nor am I trained in counseling or psychology.   

I have lived a lot of life, and I hope to give you food for thought from what I’ve learned.  This may help you navigate your marriage and relationships in a way you may not have considered. 

Contact Info

Don’t hesitate to contact and reach me!!

About

Hello,

This is my first blog, so please have some grace with me.  I know this will evolve.  Instead of waiting for it to be perfect, I’m going to dive in and begin.  You are free to contact me with any questions or concerns.  I am open and eager to hear your feedback, and you won’t hurt my feelings if you disagree with me, if you are respectful.  This is a safe place to learn and grow without judgment.

If you are interested in learning about me, I will give you a broad overview here, I won’t elaborate much, and more tidbits in each post.  If you have questions, please ask.  I am open to all you have.

For one woman, I have had an inordinate number of unique experiences in my life.  Here is a very quick sample.  I have had approximately 28 addresses.  I went to 9 schools in 12 years, 3 in the 8th grade.  I worked at Disney World.  I was in the military police in the Air Force.  I worked at Father Flanagan’s Boys Home in Boystown, NE as an Assistant Family Teacher.  We had 10 boys in the home.  I was a surrogate mother, twice, and was featured on Japanese PBS for a surrogacy special.

I taught at a community college for 7 years.  I was the East Coast Customer Service Manager and Traffic Manager at Gerber Baby Food.  While there, I decided to attend tractor-trailer driving school to get my CDL.  I thought that would help me learn about the delivery aspect of the business.  That was an interesting experience. 

For 20 years, I was a stay-at-home mom, and I homeschooled my 2 children.  My 28-year-old son is now air refueling airplanes in the Air Force.  My 13-year-old daughter, Claire, passed away on February 8, 2016. 

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Out of the blue, Claire started having double vision.  An MRI was ordered, and an inoperable brain tumor, a DIPG tumor, was found in her brainstem.  She lived 9 months after her diagnosis.  Claire is now in heaven with Jesus.  I’m sure I will talk more about this in future posts.

When I say I am open to conversation about what I write, I mean it.  I speak plainly and I’m direct.  I have been a teacher most of my adult life in one way or another.  I not only enjoy classroom teaching but giving people food for thought about real life.  Conversation is hugely important to me in truly connecting with people on a personal level.  Isn’t that what we all crave, connection?!

I will post once per week.  I will always have a post on Mondays, and I hope to post more as time goes by.  Thank you for reading a bit about me.  I look forward to connecting with you.

Gallery

This gallery reflects the beauty of family, love, and lasting bonds. Each image honors shared memories, deep connections, and the presence of loved ones—both seen and remembered—who continue to shape the heart of every family.

Elegant golden wedding rings resting on an open Bible, symbolizing a spiritual wedding union.

My Vision...

I hope you will communicate with me, share your stories and your struggles, ask questions, and live a happier, more peaceful and joyful life.

My Mission...

I know we all seem to learn things by trial and error in our own way and time. I believe we can learn from each other, though, so I can’t just sit here and waste what I’ve learned when I know it can help you. Use my hindsight for your foresight. I hope some of what I’ve learned will benefit you in your life now. I pray God will open your heart to whatever nuggets you gain from my life.

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